Building the lifestyle you truly love

It's so easy to believe the thought that this is the only way to build the lifestyle you really truly love. 

To trash everything in an instant, that you have now.

There's a better way.

Slow and low takes you farther in a more healthy way.

And it's the best way to take people with you.

To slowly introduce the new direction you're taking.

To have good conversations about what you really want.

What really matters to you.

To make space for you and your growth, while others have space around you.

You getting really clear about what matters to you is a slow process, if you're starting from the numbing and people-pleasing like I was.

And it's okay.

You can build a beautiful lifestyle that looks like that when you let it all marinate.

You try out little twists and you sense how they look like for you.

You do more of those things that really resonate.

While the lifestyle you build is resonating with who you are growing to be and choosing to become is the best match.

Being vulnerable with yourself can feel scary at first.

But when you get into the habit of living out of that vulnerability, it's just easier to see your path.

It might go the opposite way than what others expected.

And that's when clarity serves you so well.

You being clear about it is the key.

You know this looks like you now.

It's just beautiful.

And it's part of the recipe for a beautiful authentic life for you.

Ask sincere questions from yourself.

Don't be afraid of them shaking the status quo.

Trust your gut.

Go deep before you go further.

With clarity you go far and enjoy the journey.

While still living in a blur, make those honest questions your nest.

Let the conversation surprise you.

Take in the surprises.

Life is like the ocean.

Ride the waves, no matter how crazy.

Take it all in.

And let your soul be still in front of it all.

Go into the silence when the stormy day sets.

And come out as the sun rises again.

As the new you.

Bold and unapologetic.

Gentle and firm.

Steady with calm.

Let the deep soul-dive spread your wings to fly you where you only once dreamed to be.

Yet, let it start slow and low.