You've come so far and all of it has value

You have come so far and all of it has value. Your journey teaches you and molds you, if you let it. And I believe that it's evident that you let it teach you, as you came here and are reading this. Let's seek wisdom together. 

Here's the hard truth. Wisdom for you looks very different than what it looks like for your friend. And it is as valuable as it is different. What you need is based on who you are, who you are becoming and in which areas you are growing actively now.

Seasons change and you may change with them. But there's something in the core of your heart that stays the same. I find it so beautiful. Sometimes it's intriguing to build heavy walls around your heart so you wouldn't feel that devastating pain of a fully embraced and lived life.

Walls never provide safety though. They only provide isolation. True safety lives inside of your heart. You knowing that you're being held. Powerful understanding of how to take step in forgiveness and peace guides you to build connection instead of walls.

You know how boundaries are very different from walls. They tell the others where you have valuable areas for yourself and where they cannot just rush in. Boundaries also show where you can meet and nourish connection.

On the other hand walls close entrance to your life, in the whole. They cut communication, even slightest possibility for connection. Isolation is never healthy, when you're a human being. When you and I are connected, life flows between us. It's something we cannot experience alone. It is the beauty and the gift of connection.