what if you’re not stuck — you’re just not celebrating the right things?

let me ask you something — does this sound familiar?

you’re sitting there, feeling stuck in a swirl of self-doubt. telling yourself you haven’t accomplished enough. maybe you’ve had real breakthroughs, but they didn’t feel like wins. you expected to feel different — successful, maybe. accomplished. but instead? it was just... normal. and you moved right past it, onto the next thing.

i get it. i’ve done that too.

but what if — stay with me — the real shift happens when we start noticing and celebrating the smallest things?

what would change if you started writing down your tiniest wins every single day? and i mean tiny. like remembering to drink water. like pausing before snapping back. like doing that one task you always avoid. or sitting with a hard feeling instead of pushing it away.

these aren’t nothing. these are everything.

this simple habit of tracking my micro-wins has quietly changed the way i see myself. i’ve started realizing — oh, wow — i am showing up. i am building new habits. i am winning, just not in the loud, flashy ways i used to think were required.

it’s sneaky how much confidence that builds.

and it’s not just about personal growth either — it’s shaped my relationships too.

the other day, hubby and i hopped in the car for a little drive. just to escape the renovation noise and the everyday swirl of responsibility. and instead of falling into one of those stress-fueled arguments (you know the kind), we talked. calmly. about what we each needed. no drama, no defensiveness. just honesty. and you know what? it brought us closer. the very next day, we found ourselves naturally supporting each other in small, practical ways that actually made a difference.

that conversation? that was a win. maybe even a big one.

so here’s my gentle nudge for you: if you’re tired of feeling like you’re getting nowhere, start celebrating the small. the tiny. the often-overlooked.

what’s one small win you’ve had today?

write it down. count it. let it matter.

you’re not stuck.

you’re unfolding.

Love,

Pia